In a sense, I’m the one who ruined me: I did it myself.
It’s not a big deal that you gained weight. Honestly, in the big picture, who cares? Did you live life the way you wanted to? Did you have fun? Did you find people you love? Did you learn lots of interesting things? That’s probably what you’re gonna care about when you’re at your death bed, not about the fact that you “gained weight” when you were 21.
― My 18 year old brother, when i was freaking out about my recovery weight gain. (via thephilyptian